7/23/2009

Torn Between Two Friendship

I’m again tom between two friends. Well,we really don’t have any major fight or what its just so happen that my friend and officemate is beginning to like a boy who was the apple of the eye of my friend who is now working abroad. Though my OFW friend and the boy never really had a serious relationship (not even close to that), I still feels that for delicadeza’s sake – the friend who was left here should at least let our OFW friend know that she is beginning to like the boy. Though there is really no serious effect on our friendship – I feel that the girl should have asked the friend for permission first or at least inform the friend first of what she feels but the guy so that there would be no conflict , I am caught in the middle. Well I already told my friend here about how our friend other is feels about this guy and she promised to let our friend knows what’s happening between them. It’s just so happen that I personally experienced being in this kind of situation a friend – a close one –actually offered her help of getting me I my ex bf together by calling him up on the phone and telling him how sorry I am for all the things I’ve done to him. I really gave my 100% trust to this girls just to later know that she is already stabling me @ the back. My most fear came to reality – they became a couple. What’s worse is that whole barkada knows about this and never dared to let me know. Only after a month did one of our friends gave me a hint of what’s going on between the girl and my ex – and I was terribly shocked! Being betrayed by someone you trust so much is worse than not being able to win back your lover. I promised myself that from that time on… I would never trust a friend as deep as how I trusted her... I don’t want this to happen to us. I want a friendship based in trust and I want them to have an open communication as I don’t want to tolerate things like this. I know the feeling and I don’t want anyone to feel that way… not even my worst enemy.

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